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Au Pairing: What Is It & How I Got My Job
June 25, 2018
If you’ve clicked on this post you’re either curious about how to get into au pairing and my experiences with the job or you’re just plain nosey and have no clue what au pairing is. Had you mentioned it to me about a year ago I would have been the latter in the previous statement, I genuinely had no clue what au pairing was until all of my desperate searches into finding a way to move out of my family house had failed and the idea of au pairing for brought up in conversation.
Taking a gap year and being stuck in the same town that I had grown to see as such a mundane place was the worst thing imaginable for me. I wanted to travel, or at least just get out of there. Travelling, however, costs money and my little job wasn’t quite going to cover the expenses of seeing the world. I had two choices - the first being to live at home for about four months, find a new job and spend every waking hour working to be able to afford to travel later on in the year; the other being to find a way of working abroad to allow me to get out of my town and still be able to afford to live.
This is why au pairing was so ideal for me, it allowed me to escape my hometown, see the world, and have a steady and reliable income.
The basic idea behind au pairing is that you are a live in nanny (think Nanny McPhee but without the terribly behaved children) and are paid to look after children, you get free board with the family that you work for and all of your food is paid for. My friend put it best when he said it is basically like I get paid to be the kids older sister. It’s such a great way to be able live and work abroad and I didn’t realise quite how many people did it until I moved over and found au pair friends from all over the world.
When I was applying for jobs I literally applied for the broadest range of countries including America, Australia, Italy and The Netherlands. However after falling in love with the Dutch culture and knowing that I had friends and a support system in Holland (which was also close enough for me to be able to afford to head home in school holidays when I’m not needed and if anything happened to family) I had my heart set on moving to Amsterdam.
My daily routine is pretty simple and laid back, especially because the kids I look after are ten and twelve meaning they are rather self sufficient but just need someone there to give them a helping hand every now and then. A regular day of work is waking up and taking the youngest child to school, I will then come home and have the day to myself until 3pm when I need to pick him up. I take him to any clubs he has and prepare dinner twice a week and occasionally babysit.
Before I wrote this post I posted on twitter to see if any of you guys had questions about au pairing, what it entails and how I got my job. I thought I would just do a little Q&A section in this post explaining it all in a more detailed manner, so here goes.
How many hours do you work a week and how much money do you earn?
You’ll find each country has different laws and regulations around pay and work hours for au pairs, for example in The Netherlands you can’t work more than 8 hours a day, have to have 2 days off a week and your family cannot pay you any more than €340 a month. Pay is also called ‘pocket money’ to avoid getting taxed on it which is strange but cool. I have friends who au pair in England and earn about £150 a week. I’m also currently looking at Australia to au pair in for the future where you earn about $200/250 a week so really it varies with where you’re working and the laws around it.
Are you able to fit au pairing in with your studies?
As I have mentioned in this post, I am on a gap year meaning that I’m not currently studying anything - though while au pairing my host family have given me the option to take evening classes in something if I am interested. This again depends on the family and the agreements you come to in your contract and interview period. I don’t think you would however be able to do a degree or something while working here, it is very much something you do while not in education.
How did you find your family you work for?
Honestly, I just googled how to be an au pair and the site aupairworld.com came up, I made a free account and picked where I wanted to be in the world. I gave some details about me and the lifestyle I live and then began to match with families, have conversations with them and went through a skype interview period. This took a few weeks for me to find the one family that I was most comfortable around and that I felt fit me.
Do you live with the people you work for?
Yes! I live in the attic and have my own personal space which is ideal, it give some time to escape once my role is over for the day. I love my room and the way it is decorated which makes it just feel homely and safe.
Are you Dorota?
My friend who is currently watching Gossip Girl keeps asking me this in an attempt to understand what au pairing is. I am not Dorota, I am Meg. Dorota is a maid and I’m a nanny.
A Weekend In Amsterdam
May 14, 2018
Recently I've received a lot of messages from you guys saying how you've have booked trips to Amsterdam and were wondering if I would be able to give some tips on what to do in the city. Considering I've lived here for about seven months now I thought I would put together a little list of the must see places, best restaurants and my favourite spots.
ACCOMODATION
I've done Amsterdam in three ways, I've stayed in a hostel, I've stayed in a hotel and I've moved here and live in he suburbs in a home (duh). For this reason I thought I would give you a little rundown of where I've stayed and my thoughts on the places first, after all if you're on a budget then this is always helpful to know!
Okay so, let's start with hostels. There tends to be this stigma around them that they are dirty and annoying but they are the most affordable way to travel and you will meet so many people there. I literally went and sat outside at mine for about five minutes while having a cigarette and met a lovely Canadian who I befriended. It is such a fun way to explore on a budget and you will always get a locker to keep your valuables safe if that is something you are concerned about. The only downside of the shared dorm style ones are the fact you have one bathroom which can be an issue if you are waiting for ages for someone to shower and you're running on a tight schedule.
I use Hostel World to book all my hostels and do all my research and ended up going with Hostel Van Gogh which was cheap and cheerful (at €25 a night you can't go wrong) and gave us everything we needed. The central location was perfect and stopped us having to fork out for tram travel as we were able to walk everywhere we needed and we were right by the Museumplein too.
Hotel wise you expect a bit more than a hostel, I loved my hotel and was lucky enough to not have to worry about prices as this was a family holiday meaning my parents kindly paid for it. We stayed in the Ibis Styles Amsterdam City hotel which was on the more affordable side of the hotels within the city but was more homely than a hostel for sure, I think this came to about €120 a night.
Personally I don't see much difference between the two, though if you're on a budget for sure give Hostel World a search!
FOOD AND DRINK
(all places offer vegetarian options and are centrally based)
Asian food is my weakness and you can find some of the best Ramen over at Ramen-Ya Amsterdam which is a place that I often find myself on a Saturday night with friends. They have some lovely vegetarian options which is easily why it is one of my favourite places to go and grab dinner. Located a five minute walk from Dam Square it is right in the hub of the city and is always super busy, I tend to get there at about 5pm to ensure a space or you can alw
If you're from England and like me are Wagamama obsessed then you will be happy to know that there are a few of the restaurants in the city too, I tend to go to the one based near Leidseplein as it is along my tram route and I have converted several of my Dutch friends into Wagamama fans.
If Asian food isn't really your thing or you're looking for a Brunch/Lunch spot then I recommend Blue Amsterdam which is one of the prettiest restaurants that I have ever come across. The whole place is built of glass and you are given the most spectacular view of the city as you sit and eat your lunch. Again, the menu features a lot of vegetarian options and this place even goes as far as offering vegan options too!
One of the biggest parts of Dutch food are pancakes and waffles, so I suggest you head out and find yourself a pancake restaurant (there are so many across the city) or grab yourself a waffle.
MUSEUMS
If you're into art and culture then the museums will for sure be a go to place for you at some point in your trip, have a look into the ones that appeal to you and perhaps only do one or two considering you will end up spending all weekend in museums and not exploring the rest of the city!
The Van Gogh Museum is the place that I immediately tell everyone to go to, purely because Vincent is my all time favourite artist and this place fully encapsulates his experience and journey as a creative in such a beautiful manner. My little trick is if you can pass as an under 18 book your tickets online and claim to be a child, nobody checks you and it's a free museum trip instead of spending on it instead.
For photography there is the FOAM museum which isn't in the Museumplein area but is simple enough to get to with the help of Google Maps, this is always really exciting to go to (though this could just be very biased considering I'm a photography student). It also tends to be quieter than the busy Van Gogh and Rijksmuseum which are constantly packed with their tourist target audience.
If it isn't fully booked then the Anne Frank house is a must see, it makes you value everything you have and gives you such a harsh reminder of the reality of the way the world was not even 100 years ago. This is one of the mot beautiful places and is so worth taking time out of your day to see, I was brought to tears when exploring it.
There's also the sex museum which is always a laugh, take a photo with a massive penis sculpture and learn all about sex. You have to be over sixteen to visit the museum and it costs about €4 to enter which is super cheap in comparison to the prices of some other museums.
OTHER ACTIVITIES
Rent a bike and pack a picnic, take a cycle through Vondelpark and enjoy the sunny summer weather. There's something so lovely about cycling round this park and you will always see tourists and locals alike cycling round on sunny days.
Canal Cruises are the best way to see the parts of the city that would perhaps of otherwise gone amiss in your visit. There are so many different ones so doing some research in what you want from your cruise would be a good idea; some come with meals and drinks; others are just simply cruises around the city; some take ages and some are much shorter. They're lovely on sunny days but can be equally fun in the rain too.
Thrifting and Flea Markets are always fun to walk around, you can find some complete gems for unbelievably affordable prices. I picked up a winter coat that I always get complemented on for €5 at the Waterlooplein market. I also love the various Episode vintage stores that are scattered around the city as well as Bij Ons Vintage!
The infamous I Amsterdam sign is located in the Museumplein area and is always surrounded by hundreds of tourists trying to get photos at it. This is super fun to go have a look at, and tends to be much quieter and easier to get photos at late at night or in early morning.
Gap Year Update: Part 2
March 28, 2018
I haven't really sat down and written update wise about my life for the past few months fully other than in my journal, and if you are anything like me you are nosey as hell and love reading about what people are up to. Considering my last gap year update post has become one of my most viewed posts it seemed fitting to let you all know what I have been up to since then.
November was a months of settling into my new life and finding my way around the surroundings, constantly telling people that I don't speak Dutch, and seeing friends I hadn't for a while. It was the month that I really began to feel confident in who I am.
It was also filled with countless shopping trips to get things that I didn't realise I needed or had forgotten when I moved over (I think I managed to win the award for biggest idiot by moving to The Netherlands without a winter coat despite having five back in England). I also had a day out shopping with an old friend, we went thrifting and it was just generally a good day.
My weekend ritual was also born in November. I meet my best friend Laura for coffee and dinner every Saturday rain or shine, we are somehow slowly making our way round all the Asian food restaurants in Amsterdam.
Three weeks into moving here I somehow managed to make my way across the country without dying or having a meltdown over how confusing (and expensive) the Dutch travel system is to stay at a friends and had a night of movies and catching up which was, again, lovely.
Then December came. The month of heartbreak and hiding in cafes with books as I wrote far too much in my journal and refused to let go of any of my feelings. I spent a lot of money on coffee, a lot of money on wine, and a lot more on books and clothes. Anything to get me through the bottomless void that my heart was feeling.
Luckily enough I was able to go home for Christmas and so I spent a week and a half surrounded by my friends and family avoiding the crippling sense of loneliness that was pushing itself down on me in the wake of the absense of the person I cared for (and getting far too drunk off Spoons 2 for £12 pitchers).
The day after I landed in England I woke up to a text from my friend asking if I could get into London which was then followed a few minutes later by a text from my boss saying we were overstaffed and I didn't have to work if I didn't want to. I replied to Em that I would be in central in an hour and a half and my boss that I was taking advantage of his offer and wouldn't be coming to work. London with Em was lovely, we had a photoshoot and explored parts of the city that we didn't tend to go to.
Christmas was spent at mums, boxing day at my grandparents and then I had another mini Christmas at dads the day after boxing day.
There were more days in London with Em, taking photos with friends and getting rather drunk at Spoons. New Years was spent at my best friend Sammi's boyfriends and it was lovely to see the new year in with one of my closest friends and the cutest dog in the world.
January was a relatively slow month when it came to life, I had eaten away at a lot more of my bank balance than I realised when in England and decided to focus on my blog. After setting myself the goal of four blog posts a week I slowly started to realise this wasn't a realistic goal and that I should probably go back to the old style. It was relieving to take the pressure of writing, taking photos for and posting four posts a week and I began to fall back in love with blogging again because of this,
At the beginning of February a friend surprised me with tickets to see Pale Waves, who are one of my favourite band and their short but sweet set reminded me why I love live music so much. It was the first concert in a while that I had attended as a member of the audience instead of as a photographer and so it felt strange thinking about the shots I needed to get and then remembering that this was my night to live in the moment instead.
The week after Pale Waves I shot the lovely Canadian band Peach Pit's gig, this was such a fun experience and helped me tick a band off my bucket list of artists I wanted to shoot. The band were such lovely people to work with and so easy to work with too which was a dream all in all.
At the end of February my host family gave me a week off my work schedule and let me take a trip back home which was super lovely. I only told my dad and sister that I was coming home and managed to surprise a heap of people which lead to reactions that everyone wished had been filmed and multiple hugs. Because of this I also got to see a heap of friends I didn't manage to make it out to at Christmas and generally had bonding time with family too. It's strange how much living away from home makes you appreciate the small things like sitting in the living room watching a movie with pizza and your sister to keep you company.
The first week back in Amsterdam I decided to get a train halfway across the country after work and go see one of my favourite bands (by now you can probably tell that I have a lot of favourite bands) As It Is at their Dutch headline show. €50 and a stressful train journey later I arrived at the venue just as they got on stage, I moshed, I sung and I danced to my favourite songs in the world. There is no better place than as As It Is gig in my opinion, so many of my most loved memories come from watching them live.
Throughout the month I was emailing various managers, venues and everything in between in the attempts of getting more gig photography opportunities in order to expand my portfolio and have a head start when it came to uni in September. I was super lucky to have an email about three days before the Tonight Alive show in Amsterdam allowing me a photopass and so off I went with my camera and shot the show. Then I decided to stay and attempt to meet the band afterwards however it was a mad rush and that didn't really happen the way I hoped it would (but that's okay)!
That's it for my update, I've basically been to a lot of gigs and England a couple of times. Are you guys taking a gap year or have you taken a gap year? What did you get up to?
Gap Year Update
November 06, 2017
As most of you are probably aware by now, I’m currently on a gap year. I thought I would give you all a little update on what I have been up to since leaving school in June and the things that I hope to have achieved throughout the rest of the year before I attend uni. I’m not actually really sure where to begin with this, so going in chronological order is probably what is best for me to ensure that I don’t miss anything out and also gives it more of a general structure in itself.
Let’s start with the study leave period of May/June. This was a strange time period filled with convincing myself that I was revising and that it was completely justified to spend an hour on sims after doing a minuscule amount of reading for my English exams as well as traveling and spending time with my friends.
At the end of May we had our year thirteen leavers prom, it was strange to realise that being in a room full of people that I had spent seven years with and that I perhaps wouldn’t see ever again afterwards. After prom I had a heap of friends to stay over as most of us were underage and unable to go clubbing post prom, we got rather drunk and had a lovely time camping in my back yard.
Then we had Bournemouth at the very beginning of June, my friend Jamie and I went and stayed with her older sister who attends the uni there and explored the coast and genuinely had some down time as a break from the intense amounts of revision we had been doing. I also got to see one of my very best friends, Em, while down there and chilled on the beach with her for a while.
After Bournemouth it was right back into exams and doing work and general stress right up until the end of June, revision days were held wth friends but mostly I was just working hard on getting the grades that I needed to be able to attend uni.
In July I started work again, as I had quit my job in order to both achieve and maintain good grades during my a level exams and revision period. It was a bit of a strange time period as I was only working weekends and seemed to have the whole week to myself, meaning I spent a lot of time in Spoons with friends while also working on blog posts and other fun stuff. I also surprised my lovely Canadian friend, Kate, at pride in London and spent the day with her and a few other friends covered in glitter and celebrating equality.
Once that was over we were met with August, the month of SitC and family holidays. This year’s Summer in the City was a bit hit and miss for me, there was a long time period when I wasn’t going to attend but I decided to surprise a heap of my friends and book a last minute ticket and go for the weekend. After all, it was going to be the last time that I saw Kate for a very long time and it also gave me the opportunity to get to meet and talk to a lot of wonderful people (whether they were creators or just new friends)! Every SitC leaves me feeling kind of strange, it not only wipes me out but leaves me almost lethargic and nostalgic which means I always wonder whether I really enjoy the convention or not - I might make a post talking about that in more depth at a later date.
A couple of days after SitC my lovely best friend Emily came to stay for a few days, it was lovely to show her my little town and get to spend quality time with her without having to worry about rushing for a train or a bus home and also take her into my local Spoons.
We also had results day, and it was so lovely to see my friends achieving the things that they had worked so incredibly hard for over the past few months. A lot of people headed out that night for celebrations but my friends and I kept it quiet and just went to the pub for a few drinks instead which was lovely.
Later on in the month I also then went to Devon where I spent two weeks exploring little villages and beautiful beaches with my family. This was definitely a much needed break from reality and helped me to get a lot of really lovely snaps, me being the photography student I am I don’t go anywhere without my camera. You can see a few of the pictures that I took in my Devon in Photos blog post!
Between all of that craziness I was also working about four or five days a week and so getting to September where the schools started again was such a nice breath of fresh air as my work became weekends only again and I somewhat got my life back. The beginning of September was spent saying goodbye to friends who were going to uni and I also got my first tattoo, which I wrote a blog post on too!
The end of September was when things started to pick up, I spent two days in Brighton and attended the Mayday Parade ALIR10 Tour as well as chilling on the beach. We also had the cutest little airbnb for the night which made it even better! Then we had one day back at home and headed up to London for the last UK date of the tour, which was one of the best nights on tour, I managed to ask the lead singer of Mayday Parade (Derek), who we had spoken to a few nights before in Brighton, for photo passes to the Amsterdam show which I was flying over to The Netherlands for.
So, then at the beginning of October I felt out to Amsterdam and attended the third show on the tour. This was definitely one of the best shows from them all and I couldn’t have asked for a better experience in Amsterdam in general, the Dutch are so so lovely (and tall) and made me feel so at home. I also somehow managed to make two friends at the gig and then met up with one of them the next day to go to the Van Gogh museum.
After sending three days in Amsterdam my short but sweet trip was over and it was time to fly home, something I really didn’t want to do because of how much I had fallen in love with the city. Back at home I had work and meetings until it was finally time to head back to Amsterdam again (pre-warning, I actually spent most of October over there).
On the next trip to Amsterdam I went over for just under a week with my family, and we did a heck of a lot of the typical tourist things such as visiting the Anne Frank house, a canal cruise and going to museums. This was super lovely and a fab way to spend time with my family before I headed off for a few months and moved to the Netherlands. I also got one of the most incredible emails while I was over there and spent a good half hour sat in my hotel room freaking out to my very confused sister about it (more on that later though).
Right after I got back from Amsterdam I had to head into work and spent the day gruelling away being surrounded by dozens of screaming kids for hours on end in an attempt to make enough money to live off minimum wage. Luckily, I only had one day of that though before Em came to stay again for a little while to be able to partake in my leaving drinks at Spoons with a few of my other friends.
The next day we headed up to London to shoot for Dodie’s gig, which was the email that I received from Josh while in Amsterdam the previous week. This was one of the most surreal and insane nights of my life, seeing the woman that I have loved and admired for years on end performing on stage to thousands of people at a sold out Koko show was just incredible. I am so so glad that I got to experience this with Em and also surprise her with tickets so a massive thank you to Manager Josh for the ever so insane opportunity!
After Em went home it was back to work for a little while until Sammi decided to pay me a visit to say goodbye too! It was so strange having her in my house after being friends with her for such a long time and her never coming round, it was even funnier the she fully knew her way around due to the amount of time Ive spent walking round my house of FaceTime and Skype to her! We had a chilled evening of watching Netflix and eating pizza which was much needed after the chaotic-ness that the rest of the week had held.
My last day in England was a mess of rushing and shopping and goodbyes, my dad took Sammi and I out for breakfast which was so so lovely! Then my nan took us shopping so I was able to get a few last minute things and if you know me you know how much my nan means to me so this was so so lovely to get to spend some time with her before I flew away. With all the shopping and everything else done we then went home and I had to rush to fit everything in my suitcase and get to the train station in time to get a train to my mums for the evening. Once at mums I was a ball of stress but everything calmed down and I managed to make it back to the Netherlands!
And so here we are, it’s November and I am currently living just outside of one of my favourite places that I have ever had the chance to visit and not only that but earning money while doing it! I will be sure to do another one of these kinds of posts in a few months time as I love making mini life updates, but in the meantime feel free to follow my Twitter or Instagram if you ever want to be extra nosey!
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